Imagine 5 different women want to travel to America. There are two ways to travel there: an airplane or a boat.
Allison’s travel agent tells her about both options and the pros and cons of each. Allison chooses an airplane because it is a good choice for her.
Britany wants to take the boat, but she is forced to take the airplane. They won’t let her board the boat because she broke her leg 5 years ago and they think the boat ride might be too long for her.
Callie doesn’t even know that boats are still an option. (Her travel agent doesn’t sell boat tickets.) So she takes the airplane even though she is scared of flying.
Dorian doesn’t know that boats are still an option either. (Her travel agent doesn’t sell boat tickets.) So she takes the airplane, but doesn’t really mind.
Evelyn wants to take a boat but her travel agent saw a boat accident and tells Evelyn how dangerous boats are. She is torn because she really wants to take the boat, she has taken a boat before and enjoyed it, but her friends who are traveling with her want her to take the plane because they keep hearing how risky the boats can be. So finally she agrees to the plane ride.
Fran’s travel agent tells her about both options and the pros and cons of each. Fran chooses to take the boat because it is a good choice for her.
All of the women make it safely to America. They are happy to be there, but in reflecting on their journey, some are happy and some are not.
Some Questions to Ponder
How many of these moms actually had choices?
How many of the moms made good choices?
What is better to take the airplane or the boat?
I think women should have choices. REAL choices! They should not be forced or scared into the type of transportation they take, they should be informed about both choices.
Women shouldn’t take this lying down! Let’s fight for honest information and real choices.
VBAC moms should have the choice of a repeat cesarean or a vaginal birth. They should be given the risks of both in a calm rational way and then take that information and use their intuition to make the best decision for them. We need to support them in whatever that choice is.
This post is in honor of the ICAN VBAC Blog Carnival.
For great information on the real risks of VBAC visit the VBACFACTS site.
It was so much fun teaching Hypnobabies Childbirth Classes. I met so many great people…
Women have been birthing babies for thousands of years. Your body already knows how to…
Picking a Name can be a challenge for some! I struggled with choosing names, all…
I know no one chooses to become a Mom, just so she can get a…
I have been a birth doula since 2006. In this episode I explain what a…
Maranda Bower was a wonderful guest to interview for the podcast. She is the CEO…
This website uses cookies.