I love Lamaze’s 5th Healthy Birth Practice: Avoid giving birth on your back and follow your body’s urges to push.
Polly is having a wonderful un-medicated hospital birth – things have progressed quickly and the staff has been supportive about her birth preferences. It has been a calm and peaceful un-medicated birth.
She starts having an urge to push and the nurses check her to confirm she is 10 cm and then call her OB, who is about 15 minutes away.
The feeling in the room has changed.
“Don’t push!” The nurse keeps barking at her as she bustles around getting the room set up.
Polly struggles not to push.
“Don’t push!” the nurse orders as more people fill the room, including an on staff OB.
Polly can’t help but push.
“Don’t push!” the nurse chastises her as she gets the mom into the stranded beetle position.
Oops, I meant something like this –
Polly’s OB arrives. Now there is a new urgency in the room.
“PUSH! 2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10”
Polly starts pushing at their command.
“Push again!”
Polly tries to rest and she is chastised again, “Keep going, one more push!”
“PUSH 2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10”
It is as if now that the OB is here it is a huge rush to get the baby out.
Polly keeps following orders and after X minutes her baby is born.
This is so frustrating to see when it happens to my doula clients. (there is one hospital in my area that is very supportive of mother directed pushing, but at the other hospitals it is an uphill battle).
I teach about Mother Directed Pushing (MDP) in my Hypnobabies class and I try to help make it happen at births I attend by telling the nurses way before pushing – “Mom wants to push in hands and knees position (or whatever mom wants) – I also remind her she wants to do mother directed pushing. But somehow when the pushing stage begins, most care providers fall back into their “normal routine” and it takes a lot of work to get them out of that routine.
I try to balance what the nurses are barking at my client with “Follow your body, you are doing great!” and remind care givers mom is doing MDP. But the mom has to choose who to listen to. (These are in situations where mom and baby are doing well. If there is a problem with the baby then certainly I would let the nurses take charge… I always check, “Is baby doing ok?” )
So YES it is possible, but it takes preparation and support to make it happen. I made this video showing 2 hospital births where it did and give tips for mom, birth partner and doula as to how to help make it happen for you! I would love nurses to watch it too and give feedback.
Is it possible to do Mother Directed Pushing with an Epidural? Yes! I have seen it done with moms who can feel what is going on. Here is an amazing video of a mom doing so!
So here is a set of tips to help make MDP happen.
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