The big showdown is about to go down!
Who is more important to have at your birth –
Dad or Doula?
Well, luckily it isn’t really a contest at all.
Dads and Doulas can work hand in hand and provide joint support to help you have the best birth possible.
Dads are perfect at
- knowing how to love You
- knowing what makes you feel safe and calm
- knowing how to support and encourage you
- along with so many other great things!
Doulas are perfect at
- knowing about birth
- knowing and sharing the pros and cons of different options you will be offered
- knowing what a birthing mom look like
- knowing and implementing tips and ideas to help you move easily through your birthing time
Together they make a great team for you.
It allows Dad to get a bathroom break, knowing you are in good hands. It allows Dad to focus on Mom and not have to remember all the other things.
Doulas help Dads too!
I know when we had our 3rd baby, our first with a doula. My husband asked after, “Why didn’t we have a doula each time!!!????” HE loved having one as much as I did.
A great chart I love to share which shows how Dads and Doulas compliment each other is here.
I looked once into having a doula… I’m going to have to look into that again. Thanks for the reminder!
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