Putting Mothers and Babies at Risk: Promoting the Elusive ‘‘Cesarean Delivery on Maternal Request’’
This looks at the risks of promoting even the idea that moms are choosing elective cesareans. It points out that many moms choosing planned cesareans are being led to that choice by their OBs. I have posted before about the need for better definitions of the type of cesareans.
I think one big problem of promoting this idea of maternal choice cesareans, is then it starts to create women who decide THEY want to request a cesarean, because they think it is normal and safe. I met a mom who was newly pregnant. Being a childbirth educator I was asking about her plans. She wanted to just have a cesarean. I asked, “Is it because you are afraid of birth?” (which is the typical response I get when moms have said they WANT a cesarean) Her answer was “No, because birth is gross.”
The scary thing is, depending on her care provider she may or may not be fully alerted to the risks of cesarean.
One OB who loves cesareans is going to say, “Great idea!” and tell her only the positives and glosses over the risks.
Another OB would speak honestly about the benefits of vaginal birth for mom and baby and the risks associated with elective cesareans. Then if after mom educates herself with this and other information she gathers she still wants a cesarean, I am fine with that choice.
I wouldn’t be fine with the choice if she had the first OB, because that isn’t really an informed choice at all.
Thanks for this. So I have to ask– how did you respond to the ‘gross’ comment? I think I may have been speechless, although I’m sure lots of people think that.
Birth is gross?? Damn, she is really not cut out to be a parent then…cuz babies are even grosser. Birth grossness is over after a few hours…babies are a nonstop snot, pee, poo, spitup fountain for a long time! And then when they get older it’s an all new kind of gross!
I was pretty speechless, but I did talk to her about Hypnobabies and said it was a great way to change her thoughts about birth. She didn’t seem interested.
One of my friends just recently had a baby. She was due on Christmas day. Her OB saw her outside of the clinic and said to her, “at our next appointment, we’ll talk about inducing you so that you can have that baby before Christmas.”
::eyeroll::
My friend isn’t “into” natural birth or anything of the sorts, but she was smart enough to realize that her OB wanted to induce her out of his OWN convenience.