I am part of a Doula Group and we back each other up in case someone has 2 births at the same time. In 5 years of existence, it has only happened one time. And it worked perfectly, because my Hypnobabies Student had hired Carole and when Carole ended up being at another birth, I got to go to their birth. We all agreed it was meant to be.
On Call for a Birth
Well, on Thursday I got a call from one of my other partners, Kim and she had 2 moms who were doing early birthing stuff. I was on call for the couple who had taken Hypnobabies.
So I got busy.
- I got things set up for my boys on Friday in case I went to a birth.
- I let Jenn know I maybe couldn’t watch her kids on Friday (SO SORRY)
- I got my doula bag ready too.
I talked to the couple around dinner, because Kim had headed to the other birth. We talked and they were doing fine alone. So I touched base with them again around 9:30. They were still doing fine, so I was hoping to get a few hours sleep before they called.
Trying to Sleep
I took a quick shower and got into bed by 10 and tried to fall asleep. (Not always easy when you know you may be going to a birth, especially this time, when I don’t even know the couple)
12:15
- Kim texted me saying she was done at the other birth, so she wouldn’t be needing me.
- I texted back, “Great!”
- And tried to fall back asleep.
1:20
- Kim texted me saying she was heading to the 2nd clients birth, but now another client was starting her birthing time and she may need me for them!
- I texted back, “Great!”
- And tried to fall back asleep.
2:15
- got a text that this 3rd couple was on their way to the hospital and that she would let me know when they needed me.
- I texted back, “Great” (I am an eternal optimist, though I was a bit grumpy to get woken up every hour)
- And tried to fall back asleep.
3:10
I got a text from Kim saying that they were ready for me to come to the hospital.
No more “sleep” for me.
I texted back and asked
- what number baby it was
- are they Hypnobabies Students?
Kim texted back and said, “1st baby. Not Hypnobabies Students, but very into mediation and yoga, very relaxed and awesome couple.”
Ahh, I was wide awake now and a little scared!
I have never been a doula for a non-Hypnobabies couple before!
Totally not cool leaving us hanging like that! lol. I don’t want to wait another week *pout*
*patiently waiting*
Aaaahhhhhh, what a tease!!! 😀
Awww way to leave us hanging Sheridan! LOL